Long Distance Relationship

UPDATE: This is myself a year ago. I was outta my mind, being mellow dramatic and all. This is stupidly embarrass but I decided not to delete this one. Just to remind myself, nope... I was that stupid, don't go back in there. LOL And yep, Cavite-Taguig is NOT an LDR


——————————About You 

1.  What is your name? Lara
2. How old are you? 24
3. Where do you live? Cavite, Philippines
4. What do you look like? morena. with eyeglasses, prescribed. slim.

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About Them

1. You have a significant other, right? Yes
2. What’s their name? Rey
3. How old are they? 30
4. Where do they live? Taguig
5. What do they look like? Taller than me, kinda hairy person, has beard, slim but musculine. 

———————————- About The Relationship

1. Since you’re taking this, it’s a long-distance relationship, right? Yes
2. Did you meet through the internet? Nope
3. If not, then how did you meet?  We used to work at the same workplace.
4. How often do you see them? 3-5 times a month
5. How long have you been together?  5 years now

————————————————-When Was The Last Time You …

1. saw them? Today.
2. kissed them? Today before he went back home
3. hugged them?  Today
4. talked to them? A couple of days

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Some Other Questions

1. What made you decide you wanted to be in a long-distance relationship? Nobody wants to be in this kind of relationship. Do you? As if we had an option. We moved here in Cavite and he got a job in Taguig, probably 5hours ride away. Although we're apart, ending our relationship never crossed our minds. 
2. How does it usually make you feel? At first it is really hard for me cos we spent our 1st year we were together 7 days a week so when this LDR started, I was dying missing him. There was even a time when we never heard of each other for a month which probably the hardest point of our relationship. Later on, we planned to meet after 2-3 weeks, we don't wanna get through a month without seeing each other. Mostly, he comes to me to visit or sometimes we go out.
3. Are there any songs that remind you of them? Whenever I miss him, I could relate to any love songs.
4. Ever feel unable to believe you’re in a real relationship because of it?  Distance is nothing. I'm in a real serious relationship and we both know it.
5. Do you ever feel angry or stressed because of the distance? I did, during the first months.
6. Do you ever take it out on your significant other? Not really
7. Are you ever jealous of local couples? Sometimes, yeah. 
8. What are the advantages of a long-distance relationship? Your love for each other grows fonder. Everytime we see each other, it's one of the amazing.
9. What are the disadvantages? Some nights you wanna cuddle but he's absent or sometimes when you're feeling down or something amazing happened, he's not there to talk to.
10. Do people have less faith in your relationship because of the distance? I dunno to them. I don't really care. Well they see us how we spend time together.
11. Do you know when the next time you’ll see them is? As of now, no. Due to his job.
12. How do you usually talk to them? We never lasts a week without talking on the phone.
13. Has the distance helped your relationship at all? Yes, of course. 
14. If so, in what ways? It proves to me how faithful he is to me and i am to him. That we could fully trust each other.
15. Do you find it hard to trust your significant other? I trust him completely.
16. Have you, or your significant other, ever taken advantage of the distance and lied? He never lied to me as far as I know.

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Future

1. Do you ever hope to live with your significant other? Yes
2. Do you hope to marry them? Yes.
3. Do you hope to have kids with them? I already named our future children
4. Do you think it’d be strange to finally have them with you, permanently? No, I've known him for years now.
5. Do you think there’s a chance of this happening? Yes, we're planning for it.
6. How often do you cry over it? I dont cry over it. I'm used to it.
7. Would you ever break up with them because of the distance? NO
8. What keeps you from ending it all? Love.

————- Finishing

1. Overall, are you happy you’re in the relationship? Yes
2. Any advice for others in your situation? Believing in your relationship is the key. Trust. Love. Communication. 

Liam Hemsworth in Manila

My plan was to settle myself behind the barricades. I just wanted to see Liam Hemsworth in flesh and take some good photographs of him at SM Mall Asia Music Hall. I don't have any passes to get close  at least to the stage. But God did some incredible thing: Staffs of the event allowed us to enter the VIP area minutes after Liam arrived backstage. Seated on the 3rd row, I thought I'm lucky enough. When Liam showed up, I immediately took pictures of him. The meet and greet session started, people on my row stood in line to get close to Liam fucking Hemsworth . It was okay for me not joining the session cos being in the VIP area for free it's awesome enough ok. But a staff told me to get in the line without asking for my passes. Without a word, I ran to the queue line and prepared my Liam postcard. Shit, what am I gonna say to him. He greeted me, "Hi thank you for coming, how ya doing?" I smiled. I couldn't speak. Ugh, stupid. We posed for the cameras. He rested his hand on my left shoulder, I rested mine on his lower back. Please sign. "Sure!". Thank you. "Thank you. your welcome. See ya later!".

I couldn't believe this. I met Liam Hemsworth! His eyes, oh god... I could die.

My view hours before Liam's arrival. I was actually contented with this distance.

Bench staffs distributed some free stuff 

Minute away to meet Liam!!

I'm done meeting with him, went down the stage and started taking some photos of him

And he's done with the Meet and Greet session in less than an hour

And here's my signed postcard

PS: If the Miley-Liam break up is true, please dont bring her back! You're too gorgeous for her.

Books

My school years is done. I am now processing my application for graduation for next year and releasing TOR from the 2 STI schools I enrolled is the main reason why things way hard for me. I am now here in Cavite and going back and forth to Manila is ain't easy. As of now, I have to go back in Manila by next week  then will be going back to Rosario then head back again to Manila. I'm not going to do all that in one day though. I think I got it by 2-3 days. I hope.

While I wait my name to be included to the official list of candidates for graduation, I have been reading books. Yes, I am seeking job via online. As long as my graduation isn't final yet, I can't move on to job haunting.

There's No Place Like Here /(A Place Called Here) by Cecelia Ahern
I'm loving her books! Cecelia Ahern's books are as magical as her novels.

The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger and Where Rainbows End/ Love, Rosie by Cecelia Ahern
I like stories with time traveling elements.
Where Rainbows End got me glued and finished it just by 2days!

The Choice by Nicholas Sparks
My current read. A friend lent me this one.

To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee
I'm going to find out why this one is an "American literature masterpiece"

That's all for now. I am planning to buy all Cecelia Ahern books :) 

Never meant for me

"Child, it is not for you."

"But, God, how many times should I take these failures?"

"Let play a game, my child. Let's put it this way: just think of the chances you take are white eggs. Your aim is to find the golden one. While you haven't found the golden egg, take those white eggs. Those white eggs are the experiences and lessons, the more you get eggs, the more experiences and lessons learned. You can do anything with those found white eggs. You can either cook those or sell those. Don't give up until you found the golden egg, I say to you, you'll surely find it."

I was on a bus, riding home, rejected from applying call center job in Ortigas. While crossing the main roads, raced with some jeeps and buses, with all billboards we passed... God and I had a conversation.

Piercing and Tattoo

02. Talk about your piercing or tattoo, if you have any.

I got my ears pierced during my er... 2nd grade or 3rd. I remember, my one pierced got infected when I was in 3rd grade but nothing serious. It was just kinda hard for me to take off shirts that time because it would touch my infected earlobe and it hurt. I never got anymore piercing since then till I reached (oh here we go remembering what-age-I-got-that-I-got-this again... aahh.. when was it??) my teen years. I asked a friend to do me another ear piercing, also in the left earlobe. For the first time in my life, I felt my ears were over accessorized. Not long, the hole gone. It was more like a wound throughout the time I had it so I decided to let it heal by not putting anything on it except disinfectant alcohol. It's not surprising, my friend who did it was a genius, she didn't do anything or used anything to make the piercing safe and clean. Well myself is a genius, too as I let her do it to me. And I wasn't contented, cos I asked her again to do me another piercing, this time on the upper part of my right ear called the helix or rim. This was real hurt as it is the hardest part of  our ear. Same thing happened to my third lobe pierced, got slightly infected, as though it's getting worsen whenever I place an earring in it. It became swollen and darken, my boo told me to quit puncturing earring any part  of my ears except the common earlobe pierced. So that was the end of it, but I could still feel the scar inside the skin.

Tattoo! No, I don't have any. I'm not sure if I'm going to have cos first: Rey, my boo, doesn't want me to.  He doesn't have any tattoo. Second: I dunno if 50 years from now, it would still look good on me. Tattoos are becoming greenish as you get old, aren't  they? I'm not sure If I would like myself to get permanently inked. But I do tattoo myself, using my gel pen during school time. I draw small heart on my right middle finger, on the side, in the end close to my palm. I always think it's nice and cute. I sometimes fancy wrist tattoos like these: 

These are cute. I would like to have wrist tattoo. Not permanently though.